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New ideas/experiences challenge our thinking and inevitably force us to construct new knowledge.
I am trying to be mindful of this. I am taking a class at university that is challenging my way of thinking – and the way I conduct myself. The class is set in a social, collaborative environment. It is a group of women talking about women and how we best learn and how we could best teach women. The class is very comfortable – so the internal struggles and conflicts are non-existent. Everyone shares and creativity ensues.
I love this class! The concepts are difficult, but our knowledge is created mutually within the group. The only conflicts experienced are those that challenge our existing beliefs – causing us to think critically and possibly alter our point of view.
What does this have to do with my training?!!
Well, I have decided to leave my trainer and go it alone. I always thought I needed someone to instruct me when/what to eat, how to train. This is something I believed about myself. I didn’t think I could do it on my own. Well, after thinking critically about it, I have decided that YES I can!
Here goes 🙂
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I’m on a flight pondering…it isn’t very often that we have time to ponder these days!!
This journey, my attempt to get my metabolism back in check, has now spanned 5 months. During this time I have learned a lot about myself – perhaps some things that I didn’t want to admit.
I knew that my view of food, and what was normal was skewed. I had no idea how to eat without a meal plan – or was that an excuse? For months I would have whatever I wanted, because my metabolism was so bad it didn’t matter anymore – but was this true?
I, very cleverly, convinced myself that I was a lost cause and that the damage was done. I used my metabolism as a crutch, so that I DIDN’T need to worry about food and weight….
At the time I was convinced that I had done serious damage – and perhaps I did. But now I am realizing that half of my trouble was likely a result of my need to blame the issue on something else, something outside of my actions, something out of my control.
These past few weeks I have had a revelation! An “a-ha” moment!! This may seem really simple, but I just needed to realize that I control my weight. I make the decision what to eat, when to eat it, the amount of activity I do, etc. Regardless of the training I have done in the past, I truly know how to eat and train – the problem was that I just didn’t want to do it anymore.
Here and now – I am taking back control of my actions and thoughts about nutrition and training. I am determined to get to a happy place, and I will.
A bit of a heavy, personal rant! Just got on a roll… And kept on rolling!!
Has anyone else had experiences like this? Have you ever talked yourself into believing something was wrong…when it really was not?
I went to see a bodybuilding show today. Everyone looked fantastic! There was a lot of hard work and dedication! It was fun to be in the crowd watching, as opposed to being part of the show. I definitely enjoyed it.
It is fantastic to see people reach their goals. The competitors presented themselves very professionally, and you could see their pride and enthusiasm shining through. What a wonderful experience!
My motivation is through the roof. I think I may have caught it from the competitors at the show today 🙂 There is nothing like seeing what is possible, to give you that extra push.
I am feeling fine! I started a new nutrition plan this week, and have endless energy 🙂 Woot! Now I have increased motivation to boot!
Enjoy the rest of your weekend everyone!
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It seems as though I am a Friday night kind of blogger 🙂
This was my third week back at the gym – back in my old stomping grounds!
When I was training for competition I loved being in the gym. I loved everything about it. At that time I was really comfortable in my skin and throwing a bit of weight around didn’t bother me one bit.
Up until three weeks ago I had been doing the majority of my workouts at home. I really enjoyed this because I didn’t have to worry about the “gym crowd” being around. I would saunter down to my basement and get my workout in. This quickly became my comfort zone.
Or was it my “No Change Zone”? Let me try to explain what I mean…
The recent changes in my training plan have me back at the gym. This was really tough for me at first (gym anxiety). I was nervous about seeing people there that I used to see when I was in competition shape. I was constantly worried about what they were thinking…if they would think I had just given up. I kind of sort of maybe really wanted to walk around with a sign on my back that said “Metabolically Damaged”.
Summary of my last three weeks’ gym experience:
Week 1 – Ahhhhh!!!! This is terrible! I just want to go back home, put on my jammies and crawl into bed.
Week 2 – OK Melissa, it’s OK. You’re doing great. Whatever you do, do not make eye contact.
Week 3 – This isn’t so bad. Stop pretending like you don’t see people! Say hi! You’re working on being healthy…and so is everyone else in the gym!
I have learned that you have to be uncomfortable to make progress. Nothing will change if you do the same things all the time. Getting out of your comfort zone is key!
Great changes are a comin’! I just have to keep pushing myself – and keep stepping outside of what I am used to.
Have a great weekend everyone!
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I hit a small speed-bump along my road to recovery this week. It was the “Progress” speed-bump.
I have been moving along on this journey fairly well. I have made healthy changes in my life through following a nutrition and training plan to a “T”.
Then came ….the bump!
I decided to hop on the scale, just for kicks. To my surprise the number on the scale was the exact same as when I started this process 18 weeks ago. This surprised me, and brought me down a few notches. All I could think was, “with all of the changes that I have made…why is that number being so stubborn?”
After a bit of time, I came to my senses. My progress is not entirely measured by the number on the scale.
Since starting this process I can name a number of areas in my life that have improved. I am happier. I have time to do the things that I love. I have a healthier relationship with food. I have a plan and know that I am moving in the right direction.
For me, progress is steady improvement. Dropping weight quickly is what got me into this mess…dropping it slowly will help to get me out of it!
Thank you for reading my progress thoughts! Enjoy your holiday!
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What is it that I can’t resist?
I’ve never had so much trouble with this.
Chocolate or vanilla, it’s up to me,
And all for a good cause it seems.
Stopping at one just can’t be done.
It looks as though you have won.
Just what you do to me I’ll never quite know,
Why am I addicted to half-assed oreos?!
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Well…today was day one of my new program. Up until today I’ve been doing all of my workouts at home. Today I ventured back into the weight room at the gym. I used to walk around that place and not blink an eye – it wouldn’t bother me at all!
Today was hard. I really struggled with it. I wore really baggy clothes and tried to hide my way through my workout. I wanted to draw as little attention as possible…which was hard because my program includes exercises that make me look like a crazy person!!!
This is a complete shift from how I used to be. I used to love the gym. I still like it, but wish I could have it all to myself:).
I pushed through it. I may feel defeated on one front, but I feel great on another. I’m on week 17! Week 17 of a program and diet that I can maintain and enjoy.
I’ll get comfortable at the gym again. You have to step out of your comfort zone to make changes right?! Well then – change is a comin’!
Do you get gym anxiety? How do you deal with it?
Positive disruption = positive change!!
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Change… how do you feel when you hear/read that word? I suppose it depends on the context it is used in.
For me it goes something like this:
Spare change = Yay! Coffee money!
Change initiated by me = Changes that I think are positive and needed.
Change of any other kind = Let me stew on this for a bit and figure out how I feel about it.
There is something lingering in my mind and gaining more and more thought space as the days pass by. There are some big changes in my not so distant future. We are moving to another province, have to sell our house, pack all of our belongings and make the trek before Fall. It really isn’t too far from where we live now, but it is just far enough from all of our family and friends.
Now, I am a positive person, but I am having trouble with this one. I need some extra positive energy. I have no motivation to get my house ready for sale. I think that if I could find some positives about this move I would have that umph that I need! In a previous blog post I discussed positive vs. negative motivation….I think I need some positive motivation!!
Help!! What do you do when change shakes things up for you? Do you put a positive spin on it and use that energy to keep moving forward?
Currently unmotivated and distressed!
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I am awake at 6am on a Sunday so that I can go get my workout in…yes this is voluntary! There is no pressing reason for me to REALLY be doing this, I just want to.
I know what you’re thinking, “This girl is off her rocker! It’s Sunday. Go back to bed!”
I used to go to the gym because I had to. I had to get myself stage ready. The thought of walking on stage in high heels and wearing next to nothing was pretty good motivation! The issue with this is that I didn’t enjoy it. I didn’t really want to be at the gym. It became one more thing that I had to do. It was like I tried to put too many things on my plate, because if it was overflowing and I was managing it, then everyone would see how capable I was.
I used to tell people about my jam-packed existence with pride, now I look back at it and find it a bit scary!! What I was working toward actually started to define me — not good! I am so glad those days are over!
These days I enjoy my gym time. It’ is just challenging enough and not overly time-consuming. I find I work hard because I enjoy it. No more just going through the motions!
I’m happier and healthier in all facets of my life. I have struck a good balance. I’m taking on the world in a sensible way, and scrapping my old “pile it on” frame of mind 🙂
Onward and upward!
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